about

What is it like to work with me?
As an integrative counsellor, I believe the relationship we build is an important part of counselling.
I aim to offer a warm, genuine and non-judgemental space where you can feel comfortable being yourself and explore what is happening at your own pace. I also believe there can be value in gently challenging you when that might be helpful.
I won’t tell you what to think or what you should do. Instead, we’ll work together to understand the feelings, experiences, relationships and long-held beliefs that may be shaping your emotional world and explore what you might want to do differently.
Alongside relational difficulties and emotional abuse, I work with a broad range of presentations including anxiety, experiences relating to ADHD, low self-esteem, trauma, bereavement, grief and loss, as well as menopause and other significant life changes.
My work is informed by my training as an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor and ongoing professional development in areas including attachment, trauma, relationships, emotional and narcissistic abuse and neurodiversity.
Starting counselling
I understand that sharing personal thoughts and experiences with someone new can feel daunting, particularly if they are things you have never felt able to share before.
You may already be very clear about what you want to explore, or you may feel confused and uncertain. Both are completely okay.
Our first appointment will be an initial consultation where we can talk about what has brought you to counselling and what you might like to get from it. It also gives us the opportunity to consider whether we feel we could work well together.
If it feels right, we can then arrange to meet weekly on either a short or longer-term basis.
You don’t have to arrive at counselling knowing exactly what the problem is, or where you want to end up.
We can start wherever you are.
TRAINING & QUALIFICATIONS
Qualification
BSc in Integrative Psychotherapeutic Counselling
Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy
Qualification
Certificate in Integrative Counselling
Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy
CPD / Training
Treating Survivors of Coercive Control in Narcissistic Abuse
CPD / Training
Somatic Therapy for Complex Trauma Certification Training inc. Embodying Emotions
CPD / Training
Trauma, Affect Dysregulation and Shame
CPD / Training
New Rules for Treating Trauma: Integrating Neuroscience for Resilience, Connection and Post-Traumatic Growth
CPD / Training
Narcissistic Relationships, Emotional Abuse & Gaslighting: Treating and Empowering Survivors of Relational Trauma
PESI UK
CPD / Training
The Science of Trust and Betrayal
John Gottman
CPD / Training
Heal Your Heart After Grief – Help Your Clients Find Peace After Break-ups, Divorce, Death and Other Losses
David Kessler
CPD / Training
Human Toolbox Practitioner Training
Lindy Wheeler
Professional Membership
UKCP Registered Member
UKCP
Professional Experience
Volunteer Counsellor – Mentis Tree CIC
Mentis Tree CIC
Qualification
Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling
Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy
CPD / Training
ADHD Certification Course – Strength-based Interventions to Thrive with ADHD
CPD / Training
Rebuild Clients’ Healthy Instincts and Restore Their Trust in Themselves after Manipulation
CPD / Training
An Integrative Approach to Menopause
CPD / Training
Treating Trauma and Complex PTSD
CPD / Training
Attachment in Adults: How Infant Attachment Security Affects Adult Relationships
CPD / Training
Emotional Abusive Behaviours and A Closer Look at Gaslighting: Clinical Tools to Break the Cycle of Manipulation and Regain Personal Power
PESI UK
CPD / Training
Me, Myself and I – Experiencing the World of the Inner Child
Samantha Lee
CPD / Training
The Challenge of Uncertainty
Ernesto Spinelli
CPD / Training
Overview of UK Attachment and Trauma Congress
Professional Accreditation / Training
Human Toolbox Authorised Practitioner
Human Toolbox
Qualification
Diploma in Integrative Counselling
Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy
CPD / Training
Gaslighting: Help Clients Escape and Rebuild from a Narcissist's Emotional Abuse
Stephanie Sarkis
CPD / Training
How Attachment Trauma Shapes Our Personality
CPD / Training
Attachment – Cradle to Grave: Intimate and Interactive Conversations
CPD / Training
Toxic Shame in Clinical Practice: Help Clients Release Shame, Get Unstuck and Improve Treatment Outcomes
CPD / Training
Building Trust, Love and Loyalty in Relationships
John Gottman & Julie Schwartz Gottman / PESI UK
CPD / Training
Narcissism, Infidelity and Trauma
Esther Perel & Terry Real
CPD / Training
Trauma and Relationships: When Intimacy Feels Unsafe
Janina Fisher
CPD / Training
Working with Erotic Transference and Countertransference
David Mann
CPD / Training
Personal Insights Into Attachment Theory
Richard Bowlby
Professional Experience
Counselling provider for the Electrical Industries Charity
Electrical Industries Charity (EIC)
Qualification
Qualification in Online and Telephone Counselling – 80 hours professional development, accredited by ACTO
Counselling Tutor
CPD / Training
Complex PTSD Clinical Workshop
Arielle Schwartz
CPD / Training
Undoing Shame: The Key to Trauma Healing
CPD / Training
Men and Therapy – Key Approaches to Working with Men
CPD / Training
Narcissism and Intimacy: Coming Down from Grandiosity and Up from Shame
Terry Real / PESI UK
CPD / Training
Making Relationships Work
John Gottman & Julie Schwartz Gottman
CPD / Training
Social Anxiety: Step by Step Techniques to Overcome Fear, Shyness & Social Phobia
PESI UK
CPD / Training
Dr Bessel van der Kolk's Trauma Treatment Mastery Course
Bessel van der Kolk
CPD / Training
GDPR and BACP Ethical Framework Review
CPD / Training
UKCP Covid-19 Online Working Guidance
UKCP
Professional Experience
Volunteer Counsellor – Life-Force Centre for Natural Well-Being
Life-Force Centre for Natural Well-Being





