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Sarah Harvey

I’m Sarah, a UKCP registered integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor offering counselling to adults from my practice in Needham Market, Suffolk, and online across the UK.

Sometimes life can feel difficult or overwhelming. You may be struggling with anxiety, low mood or self-esteem, navigating a period of change, loss or uncertainty, or simply feel that something isn’t quite right.

 

Perhaps you find yourself in relationships or situations that leave you questioning yourself, or notice the same patterns appearing again and again. You may know that you want something to change but feel unsure about where to begin.

Whatever has brought you here, you don’t need to have everything figured out before coming to counselling.

Relationships, attachment and emotional abuse

I have a particular professional interest in supporting people who have experienced emotionally abusive, narcissistic, coercive or manipulative relationships.

These experiences can leave you questioning your own judgement, feelings and memories, and perhaps feeling as though you have lost a sense of yourself along the way. These feelings can continue even after the relationship itself has ended.

Counselling can give you the space to make sense of what has happened, understand the impact it has had on you and begin rebuilding trust in yourself.

My approach is less about diagnosing or labelling another person and more about understanding your experience, the relational dynamics involved and what you need in order to move forward.

I also have a strong interest in relationships and attachment patterns. You may want to understand why certain situations affect you so strongly, why you withdraw, become anxious or avoid difficult conversations, or why similar difficulties seem to recur in your relationships.

You may also recognise patterns in your own behaviour that you would like to understand or change. Together, we can explore these patterns with curiosity rather than judgement, helping you develop greater awareness of your emotional needs and responses and more choice in how you relate to others.

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Counselling Room in Needham Market
Wide angle view of counselling room near Stowmarket, Suffolk
Online Counselling via Zoom with Sarah Harvey Counselling
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What is it like to work with me?

As an integrative counsellor, I believe the relationship we build is an important part of counselling.

I aim to offer a warm, genuine and non-judgemental space where you can feel comfortable being yourself and explore what is happening at your own pace. I also believe there can be value in gently challenging you when that might be helpful.

I won’t tell you what to think or what you should do. Instead, we’ll work together to understand the feelings, experiences, relationships and long-held beliefs that may be shaping your emotional world and explore what you might want to do differently.

Alongside relational difficulties and emotional abuse, I work with a broad range of presentations including anxiety, experiences relating to ADHD, low self-esteem, trauma, bereavement, grief and loss, as well as menopause and other significant life changes.

My work is informed by my training as an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor and ongoing professional development in areas including attachment, trauma, relationships, emotional and narcissistic abuse and neurodiversity.​

Starting counselling

I understand that sharing personal thoughts and experiences with someone new can feel daunting, particularly if they are things you have never felt able to share before.

You may already be very clear about what you want to explore, or you may feel confused and uncertain. Both are completely okay.

Our first appointment will be an initial consultation where we can talk about what has brought you to counselling and what you might like to get from it. It also gives us the opportunity to consider whether we feel we could work well together.

If it feels right, we can then arrange to meet weekly on either a short or longer-term basis.

You don’t have to arrive at counselling knowing exactly what the problem is, or where you want to end up.

We can start wherever you are.

TRAINING & QUALIFICATIONS

Qualification

BSc in Integrative Psychotherapeutic Counselling

Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy

Qualification

Certificate in Integrative Counselling

Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy

CPD / Training

Treating Survivors of Coercive Control in Narcissistic Abuse

CPD / Training

Somatic Therapy for Complex Trauma Certification Training inc. Embodying Emotions

CPD / Training

Trauma, Affect Dysregulation and Shame

CPD / Training

New Rules for Treating Trauma: Integrating Neuroscience for Resilience, Connection and Post-Traumatic Growth

CPD / Training

Narcissistic Relationships, Emotional Abuse & Gaslighting: Treating and Empowering Survivors of Relational Trauma

PESI UK

CPD / Training

The Science of Trust and Betrayal

John Gottman

CPD / Training

Heal Your Heart After Grief – Help Your Clients Find Peace After Break-ups, Divorce, Death and Other Losses

David Kessler

CPD / Training

Human Toolbox Practitioner Training

Lindy Wheeler

Professional Membership

UKCP Registered Member

UKCP

Professional Experience

Volunteer Counsellor – Mentis Tree CIC

Mentis Tree CIC

Qualification

Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy

CPD / Training

ADHD Certification Course – Strength-based Interventions to Thrive with ADHD

CPD / Training

Rebuild Clients’ Healthy Instincts and Restore Their Trust in Themselves after Manipulation

CPD / Training

An Integrative Approach to Menopause

CPD / Training

Treating Trauma and Complex PTSD

CPD / Training

Attachment in Adults: How Infant Attachment Security Affects Adult Relationships

CPD / Training

Emotional Abusive Behaviours and A Closer Look at Gaslighting: Clinical Tools to Break the Cycle of Manipulation and Regain Personal Power

PESI UK

CPD / Training

Me, Myself and I – Experiencing the World of the Inner Child

Samantha Lee

CPD / Training

The Challenge of Uncertainty

Ernesto Spinelli

CPD / Training

Overview of UK Attachment and Trauma Congress

Professional Accreditation / Training

Human Toolbox Authorised Practitioner

Human Toolbox

Qualification

Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Matrix College of Counselling and Psychotherapy

CPD / Training

Gaslighting: Help Clients Escape and Rebuild from a Narcissist's Emotional Abuse

Stephanie Sarkis

CPD / Training

How Attachment Trauma Shapes Our Personality

CPD / Training

Attachment – Cradle to Grave: Intimate and Interactive Conversations

CPD / Training

Toxic Shame in Clinical Practice: Help Clients Release Shame, Get Unstuck and Improve Treatment Outcomes

CPD / Training

Building Trust, Love and Loyalty in Relationships

John Gottman & Julie Schwartz Gottman / PESI UK

CPD / Training

Narcissism, Infidelity and Trauma

Esther Perel & Terry Real

CPD / Training

Trauma and Relationships: When Intimacy Feels Unsafe

Janina Fisher

CPD / Training

Working with Erotic Transference and Countertransference

David Mann

CPD / Training

Personal Insights Into Attachment Theory

Richard Bowlby

Professional Experience

Counselling provider for the Electrical Industries Charity

Electrical Industries Charity (EIC)

Qualification

Qualification in Online and Telephone Counselling – 80 hours professional development, accredited by ACTO

Counselling Tutor

CPD / Training

Complex PTSD Clinical Workshop

Arielle Schwartz

CPD / Training

Undoing Shame: The Key to Trauma Healing

CPD / Training

Men and Therapy – Key Approaches to Working with Men

CPD / Training

Narcissism and Intimacy: Coming Down from Grandiosity and Up from Shame

Terry Real / PESI UK

CPD / Training

Making Relationships Work

John Gottman & Julie Schwartz Gottman

CPD / Training

Social Anxiety: Step by Step Techniques to Overcome Fear, Shyness & Social Phobia

PESI UK

CPD / Training

Dr Bessel van der Kolk's Trauma Treatment Mastery Course

Bessel van der Kolk

CPD / Training

GDPR and BACP Ethical Framework Review

CPD / Training

UKCP Covid-19 Online Working Guidance

UKCP

Professional Experience

Volunteer Counsellor – Life-Force Centre for Natural Well-Being

Life-Force Centre for Natural Well-Being

where

Quarry Avenue, Needham Market, Suffolk, IP6 8FA

appointments

Mon - Thurs: 10am - 6.30pm (final appointment 5.30pm)

 

Needham Market is located not far from Ipswich, Stowmarket, Hadleigh and Bury St Edmunds.

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COUNSELLING ENQUIRIES

Preferred session format

All messages are treated confidentially and your information is held in accordance with the latest GDPR regulations. 

*online sessions must be UK-based only, due to restrictions in countries other than my own.

Enquiries will be responded to as quickly as possible within my admin office hours - between Mondays and Thursdays 10AM - 5PM. 

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